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Sometimes, life's good. Sometimes . . . not so good.  

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 Personal note added January 23, 2012                                                    
                                                   Our Sweet Boy . . .

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I do hope that the information available here can help. Really . . . I use it myself. 






Back in November of 2010, our grandson began his battle with ALL (Acute Lymphoblastic Leukemia). His younger sister donated her bone marrow for his first transplant. His mom gave him some of her NK cells during a study at St Jude's hospital. She has also been keeping family and friends updated through Caring Bridge. Caring Bridge is a genuine blessing to families going through illness. If you haven't heard of them before, take a few minutes to visit the official Caring Bridge site. Family members can easily post information on their free personalized pages. This allows the family to keep friends informed. And folks don't feel like they are intruding. This was especially helpful for us because Liam's ability to fight infection was so low that he had to be in an isolation unit. Friends were not allowed to visit. 

Liam had his first bone marrow transplant at Cook Children's hospital in Fort Worth, TX. Since Fort Worth is only a few hours from Abilene, friends were able to visit and encourage. Liam received a second bone marrow transplant at St Jude Hospital in Memphis, TN. This one came from an unrelated donor. For more information on becoming a bone marrow donor, please visit The National Marrow Donor Program. In our case the leukemia returned a second time. The family returned to Abilene and Liam received care from a local hospice. 

 We have been blessed by prayers and other expressions of concern from folks all over the world. One blessing has been the Habitat for Hope (HfH) near Millington, TN. HfH provides free housing for families seeking treatment for a child with a serious illness. The Horrocks family provides a fully furnished apartment in their home. The housing at St Jude is limited to 4 people per unit. When grandparents are involved we've got as many as 6 in the house so HfH has been a blessing. The house is about 20 minutes from the hospital. Since it is in "the woods," the grounds provide a "naturally" soothing setting.

While hospitalized in Ft. Worth, Liam recognized that he had many things to be thankful for. His first idea was to send bananas for the kids who needed food. His dad cautioned that might pose some transport problems. In looking for a way to help he learned that many kids don't even have clean water. At his request, friends donated to The Water Project and 2  water wells have been dug to provide water for kids in Western Kenya. One of the wells provides water for Emanyala hospital and the other provides the H2O for Eshiamboko school. To continue this effort Liam opened a new project called Liam's Friends and the total is now 4 wells (5/17/2012)

 

Liam's battle with Leukemia ended on January 17, 2012. 

But his work continues . . . 

 Additional Liam stories can be found at: 

 The Abilene ReporterNews  (obit) and the Christian Chronicle.

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Photo by Velma Barker